Sillygirlstarlet

My own personal nonsense

Ask NOT what your country can do… May 15, 2008

Filed under: Life, personal responsibility, politics — sillygirlstarlet @ 4:53 pm
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Lately we have had a lot of political debate. Hillary, Obama, McCain, Ron Paul and so on. I think my biggest problem is that it seems that we are all sitting around waiting on our government to do for us what we are unwilling to do for ourselves; but to quote John F. Kennedy, “ask not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country.” And this from a democrat, no less.  However, it would benefit us greatly to live by this famous command. America is still the greatest country; we still offer endless opportunity for better life. People across the oceans and borders are still trying to improve their life’s quality by coming here. Still, I am constantly burdened by the bellyaching of my fellow countrymen.

 

We, as of today, are not technically in a recession and yet people talk as though it is the second Great Depression.  I had a lady tell me that her daughter thinks it is so bad here that she plans on moving to Mexico. Mexico! I think the fact that we have 13 million people crossing the border to come HERE illegally (and work for less than minimum wage) should make it apparent that moving to Mexico to improve your financial situation is plain idiotic. In the next sentence she made the point that “we could buy smaller, more economical cars to help with rising gas prices, but who wants to do that?” Then please tell me why you are complaining. Oh, becasue it is easier just to blame George Bush. ultimately what you are telling me is that you don’t want to change your lifestyle? Well, I guess the folks at Exxon don’t want to change theirs either, or that of their employees. So when crude prices rise then, naturally, so does your gas bill. If you cannot make the sacrifice then why would you expect the corporations to do it for you?

            Universal healthcare is the next big complaint. It is so terrible that the average person cannot afford healthcare so you tell me that my tax dollars should go to take care of those unfortunate people. Are Americans healthy? Not usually. Is it the lack of healthcare coverage? I happen to think not. Americans are FAT! Americans eat cheap, low quality food stripped of nutrients. We spend time hurried and stressed and then only break to spend hours with our beloved electronic devices. Is it any wonder we are ill? And instead of considering a change of lifestyle, we run to the latest prescription drug that costs money we don’t have. I resent the fact that the only proposed solution to this healthcare issue is taking money from MY paycheck to pay for healthcare costs that are the result of others not taking responsibility for their own health. Again, if you’re not going to make the sacrifice, why should I?

            Abortion, the environment, social programs, etc, etc. All of these issues really go back to one thing; personal responsibility. When you have a country that embraces convenience before health, temporal pleasure over morality, personal victimization over ethics and hard work then you have…well, exactly what we have now. As a nation we have to stop expecting help from the government or anyone else. We have to take total responsibility for every aspect of our own lives and go out of our way to help our fellow man (and I don’t mean with government funded programs. I mean WE have to help). We have to acknowledge and accept responsibility for our own choices. And we MUST, we MUST, realize how tremendously blessed and truly rich we actually are. So please ask yourself what YOU can do for your country. At the very least, ask what you can do for yourself.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Can I cut in line…for 20 Bucks? May 6, 2008

Filed under: Life — sillygirlstarlet @ 5:46 pm
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Yesterday we were at the grocery store waiting in line with our buggy of food. This girl with only a handful of stuff asked the husband, “Can I go in front of you? I’ll give you twenty bucks. I’m kind of in a hurry. I need to break a $100.” The husband said, “Yes.” I some how missed the part about “I’ll give you twenty bucks.” She gets her stuff paid for and she turns around and ACTUALLY hands us a $20 bill. She gave us $20 JUST so that she could cut in  line. And then gave me a hard time about taking it back. I was just like, “I am not gonna take money just to let you cut in line when that is just common courtesy.” It’s like when your mom tries to give you money for something you should do anyway and you’re trying not to take it. I was stuffing a $20 bill in the pocket of a total stranger trying to get her to take it back. Finally she did.

 

That is very generous but dang! I don’t think I could take $20 bucks to help someone change a tire much less cut in  line at the Kroger. I guess it is refreshing that she didn’t think she was entitled to cut for having fewer items. Still $20 bucks is over priced for a cutting privilege…or maybe I’m a sucker for not taking it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

tag-along kitty May 1, 2008

Filed under: Life — sillygirlstarlet @ 3:37 pm
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Okay. I know I know. My sister-in-law warns me on a regular basis that I am turning into “one of those people” because I take photos of my animals and I have reached my (self imposed) 3 –pet limit. It has been suggested to me (by her) that I start having babies soon. But here is an animal story anyway:

 

Last night we were walking the dog. I kept hearing a noise that sounded like a dog whimpering. I kept walking. A little way down the road I am like, “That is a cat. I hear a cat.” So I turned around and looked under a car and there was my kitty. He was meowing to say, “Hey, guys! Wait for me!” and he followed right along behind us while we walked the dog around the neighborhood. We got a kick out of that.  

 

On a related note, I had a co-worker talking about how she cannot believe that people take their dog to PetSmart. I take my dog to PetSmart just to do it sometimes; even if I am not buying anything. Dogs like to get out of the house too….I still don’t think I have made it to “one of those people” status…not just yet.